Parkland Cares

The executive team at Debt.com launches a crisis-counseling initiative for MSD students and families

By Kevin Kaminski

Like so many others around the country, Howard Dvorkin watched the events of Feb. 14 unfold with equal parts shock, anger and despair. It wasnโ€™t just that he and wife Gwen had deep roots in Parkland, ones that, for Dvorkin, stretched over some three decades. Or that several equestrians from Marjory Stoneman Douglas rode their horses at his Pine Hollow Farm.

In the aftermath of the deadliest high school shooting in U.S. history, the chairman of Debt.com and investor in SFBWโ€™s parent company and other businesses recognized that, for some members of the community, the worst was yet to come.

โ€œThere are so many people who have been emotionally impacted, and they may need to talk to somebody,โ€ Dvorkin says.

โ€œOnce the cameras are off, once the reporters are gone, once the police are gone, you still have a lot of hurt to deal with. Long-term hurt. And if thatโ€™s not addressed, it will destroy peopleโ€™s lives.โ€

Itโ€™s with that in mind that the executive team at Debt.com, including company president Don Silvestri, has partnered with some of the areaโ€™s top mental health providers to establish Parkland Caresโ€”a centralized resource service and fundraising platform for those in need of immediate and long-term crisis counseling.

At press time, the organizationโ€™s website (parklandcares.org) featured connections to Henderson Behavioral Health, Broward Countyโ€™s largest mental health provider; the Bougainvilla House Family Therapy Center; Goodman Jewish Family Services of Broward County; the Bobby Resciniti Healing Hearts Foundation; and two programs at Nova Southeastern University (the Trauma Resolution and Integration Program and the Child and Adolescent Traumatic Stress Program). The organizationโ€™s advisory boardโ€”which includes the Dvorkins, Silvestri and wife Alissa, Debi and Andrew Weisman, Stacey and Michael Udine, and other community leadersโ€”will continue to evaluate potential mental health partners for Parkland Cares.

For Dvorkin, understanding and coping with the effects of trauma is personal. A week before his bar mitzvah, his father suffered a massive heart attack at the foot of Dvorkinโ€™s bed.

โ€œHe died in my arms when I was 13,โ€ Dvorkin says. โ€œBack then, they didnโ€™t send us to therapy. I canโ€™t recall one conversation with anyone in the 1970sโ€”including my mother, who was a great mother. We just didnโ€™t talk about it. You were expected to toughen up and just go.

โ€œWhen I was a teenager, I was set on a path of self-destruction; the people I was hanging out with were the worst people. Some are dead now; some are incarcerated. There was so much rage in my body. Thankfully, I was strong enough to pull myself away from it. But it wasnโ€™t until I was in my early 40s that I finally spoke about all this. โ€ฆ My only ambition here is to help students and families with the long-term traumatic stress that will affect them.โ€

In addition to the website and its resources, Parkland Cares plans raises funds through challenges and events, the proceeds of which will go directly toward counseling efforts for those in need. ♦

 

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